Exodus 20:14

You shall not commit adultery – Exodus 20:14

I am intimately aware of this scripture as Jesus put it to not even desire it in your heart.  Both Tom and I have been on the wrong side of this scripture.  It's in our marriage and something we have worked through, but are keenly aware again, that God's ways are better than ours.  That breaching trust is the most destructive thing in our marriage.  That flirting with the disaster is as bad as the disaster in this case.